Archives for May 2015


We started off our pastoral career as Singles Pastors and we were very effective.  We truly loved the beautiful transformation that happened within our Singles daily,   We built it on a very strong Foundation that the Lord gave to my Husband.  We were in that position for a while with some incredible episodes of life but one truly stands out that I simply must share with you.  Since my Husband and I both have incredible Counseling Gifts, we counseled our Singles all of the time.  One particular Lady that I will call Nicola came to see me because she had just got engaged to marry one of our Singles Bible Study Men named Deon (Not real name).  As her Pastor, I objected and told her that he was very physically abusive.  She thought that that was simply incredulous because she commenced to tell me of how warm, tender and sensitive he was in their prayer meetings because he was always moved to tears during prayer.  I knew then that it was essential that she believed me because I knew that … [Read more...]


Some of you Husbands out there may need to schedule  counseling sessions with my Husband who would love to assist you in moving forward into victory. Pastor Jerry Ruffin 972-478-4340   Husbands, this next Scripture also affirms why you should develop an intentional hunger within your  masculinity for deeper intimacy with Jesus Christ as your Head.  He even made us for YOU!  You are that important to Him.  I Cor. 11:8,9 For man does not originate from woman, but woman from man;9for indeed man was not created for the woman's sake, but woman for the man's sake.  Because you are Christ’s image of divine leadership, authority and objective truth, it is within this framework that He adds love, compassion and submission  through the wife so you may experience His nurturing through her and Himself.   To accentuate the wholeness and well-roundedness of you, He has added yet another layer of rich accountability.  1 Peter 3:7-8 You husbands in the same way, live with your wives in an … [Read more...]